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* Letters like this are ''way'' easier to write by someone who is not emotionally involved. So if you have been personally offended by the person who you need to ask to leave the group, try to get someone else to write it.
* You should '''be firm''' and focus on the fact that you don't want this person to come back, if that's accurate.
* It is best to have a written code of conduct before incidents like this happen, but it is okay to kick someone out of your group without a code of conduct.
* If you don't personally want the person to ever email you again, then it is '''okay to say that'''. If you can find a person for them to keep in touch with who is not emotionally involved in the situation (such as someone not even living in the same area of the world as you), that's cool. If not, don't worry about it.
* You are a volunteer focusing on outreach efforts, and this is a distraction and the sooner you can finish the task of asking the person to not be part of the group, the sooner you can get back to the real work you wanted to do.
* Describe things you observed, and how they made you feel.
* Again, feel ''particularly encouraged'' to ask for help.
== Telling solo men they're not welcome to attend ==
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